Who they are, and what they're known for
Members choose words for the person — stubborn, generous, a wicked card player. The same word from several people becomes one chip naming who chose it.
Who they are gathers the words people would use for them — patient, stubborn, funny — and Known for the things they can do — a perfect risotto, fixing anything with an engine. Any member adds a word; a starter list helps with the first few.
- When several people choose the same word it becomes one chip that names them — Generous — Maria, Sal, Anna — never Generous ×3.
- The person's own words for themselves are marked, on their own page.
- Words wait for a manager's review like everything else members add; that review, not a blocklist, is what keeps them kind — nobody can write a rule that knows whether stubborn is an insult or a compliment in your family.
- There's a limit: a page holds up to forty traits and twenty-four skills, and each person adds at most eight and five.