"Sent to Mum": what an ask is, and how you answer
When a young person does something that would reach another person, it's filed as an ask. They carry on; you see one line on the bell and answer Approve or Not now.
For the young person
You write a memory for Nonno's page, or accept Aunt Rose's invitation. Instead of happening at once, it says Sent to Mum — and you carry on. Nothing blocks you; a Waiting for Mum list on your dashboard shows what's still to be answered. If it's declined, it simply never existed; nothing is sent to anyone.
For the parent
Your bell says 3 things from Emma to look at — one line, not a ping per item. Open it: each ask shows the thing itself, readable, with Approve or Not now. Approving does it exactly as if Emma had, so every other rule still applies — Nonno's page still reviews her memory if it reviews everyone's. If something's been waiting since yesterday you get at most one reminder a day.
What asks
Creating their page; accepting an invitation; asking to join a page; sharing a memory by link; inviting someone (which arrives as a suggestion); and, depending on the dial, writing on other people's pages and naming people in photos. Writing on their own page is free except on Everything.